Sunday, November 21, 2010

It has been too long since I've posted an update, so let me share with y'all some highlights from the past couple of weeks:

 THE KIDS
Girls sorting peanuts (or "g-nuts" as they're called here)
It has been a painful to joy to watch how quickly our kids are growing, especially the girls.  Julia, the 2-year-old, is wearing Lucy's clothes, joining in games, speaking like a 3-year-old, and making us laugh.  All of Lucy's dresses suddenly look like mini-skirts, and she is writing out letters and numbers like a pro, and has made unexpected and sudden leaps in her artwork.  Georgia sometimes dazzles me with her beauty, has come to enjoy school (she actually cried last week when we were surprised with a Muslim holiday that closed down the schools), and is becoming a voracious reader.  (Recent favorite quote: "I love this book now that I can read it!")

   
Julia, Georgia, and Lucy in "dress-up" clothes

Jesse teaching Protase the intricacies of the DS
Jesse and Micah in Warrior Stance
Jesse continues in his loyalty to all things Star Wars (with particular attention to the Clone Wars), and he has completely mastered the two DS Star Wars games we brought with us.  Thankfully, our shipment from the United States finally arrived, which meant for Jesse renewed access to his Tin Tin books.  Jesse steadily improves in his academic performance at and enjoyment of school, but by far his favorite pastime is playing with Micah.  They hardly leave each others' side, and bound around Rugarama Hill, or huddle over Legos, or engage in long, ardent plans for their future country of Saville.  This is a serious focus for them -- journal pages, maps, plans, designs, vision statements -- Saville is going to bring peace to the world, and until there is peace, it is going to have the most advanced defense system the world has ever seen, with several humorous touches.  They have recently realized the enormity of their project, and have scaled it back to begin with the purchase of an island.  They'll grow from there!

LAKE BUNYONYI
I'm sure we've written already of our times on Bushara Island on Lake Bunyonyi.  The lake is about a 20 minute drive away, and the island has been a getaway for us.  A couple of Saturdays ago, however, we tried something different.  Rather than dipping down to the lake, we drove up to Arcadia to see the view from above.  Here's what we saw:

Mallory, Lucy, and Julia loving the flowers
Lake Bunyonyi from above
Beauty
Yes, this will be one of our new get-away-and-rest spots.  The kids run free on the green hillside, and we sit at tables and enjoy lunch, tea, and conversation.  We've fast learned the importance of resting and having fun as a team.  We need these times!  It's amazing what comes out -- clarity with regard to unspoken conflict we've been having, plus simple laughter and enjoyment of being together.
On the BirdsNest Deck at Breakfast
For my 40th birthday (just yesterday!) we discovered another wonderful place called BirdsNest.  Yes, it really looks like the pictures on the web page.  Leslie and I went there for lunch on Friday, then decided to stay overnight while the Morrows watched the kids.  What a wonderful escape!  A very sweet Belgian couple runs the place, and a well trained chef fed us some of the best food we've had yet in Uganda.  Our server also was just wonderful.  We're ready to go back!

Turning 40 has been more difficult than turning 30 was. I won't spend much time here reflecting on entering this next decade, but what has been challenging for me is not so much that I'm doing what I expected to be doing by 40, but that I'm not fully who I want be by the time I reached this age.  There is a yearning in me to be freer from my perception of people's expectations of me, to be giving so much less energy to image-management, to be more quietly and simply present to people and to God, listening and responsive rather than being impatient and internally defensive.  Believing in Jesus, loving people, and really and deeply doing both of these is at the heart of my yearning right now.

VISIT FROM GRANT
All of my Trinity friends will remember the Rev. Dr. Grant LeMarquand, professor of New Testament and Mission at Trinity School for Ministry, my seminary alma mater and place of employment for the 8 years preceding our move to Uganda.  Grant significantly shaped my understanding of Scripture, and his love of East Africa is one of the seeds planted in our lives that has grown into what has become our life here.  So it was pure joy to have him come for a visit last week as he finished up his 6 week tour of Africa (Tunisia, Egypt, Kenya, Uganda).  Adding to the fun was having dinner with our next door neighbor, Gideon, who is the chaplain of BBUC and who attended Trinity the year we arrived in Ambridge!

Gideon, Travis, Grant

LESLIE
My view at my birthday breakfast
Leslie has been doing so well the past couple of weeks.  Actually, she has been doing better than I have!  Not only has she begun to bring beauty and order to our home, but she has really come into a space of greater rest and confidence.  She is making the trip into town on her own and bringing home the bacon (figuratively and literally).  She is deepening friendships with our workers, sharing and laughing with them.  The wisdom and prayer she brings to our team meetings consistently reshapes our thinking and our approach to life here.  Her attitude and spirits have lifted my own, and she keeps bringing clarity to my often cloudy wrestling with decisions.  And -- since I'm writing this blog I get to say it -- she continues to grow in beauty as well, even though she's frustrated with the lack of western hair stylists in Kabale!

Leslie painting the toenails of our house-help/friends/sisters!

ATTACHED TO THE CATHEDRAL
So much of our work in these first few months is simply settling in and learning what it means to be the Hines family in Kabale, and what it means to be Team Kabale (Hines and Morrows) in Kabale.  We're focusing on learning to love each other in this new season and place, and beginning to learn to love the people of BBUC and Kabale.  I have begun to meet with faculty and sit in on a few classes and connect with students and explore joining committees, and we are beginning to dabble in learning Rukiga, the local language.  Mostly, however, we're just settling into knowing and being known by the community, and figuring out how to eat, get around, communicate, and take care of ourselves.

St. Peter's Cathedral
One area where I have branched out a bit more is at St. Peter's Cathedral here on Rugarama Hill.  On December 5, I will be ordained a priest by Bishop George Katwesigye on behalf of my bishop, Archbishop Duncan.  Bishop Katwesigye graciously and wisely has assigned me to the cathedral so that I can begin to understand more of how the Anglican Church of Uganda functions, and so that he and his staff can with integrity affirm my call to the priesthood.  It has been a wonderful time.  Mostly I participate in the 8am English service, leading the liturgy or leading the prayers.  I love serving under the Revs. Amos, Obed, and Joshua -- men of character, humor, and wisdom who have been serving God and his church for decades.  I am learning a lot just watching them.

The highlight for me so far was a couple of Sundays ago when the Bishop surprised me by asking me to preach on the Sunday he confirmed over 200 people at the Cathedral.  I preached through an interpreter to a crowd of over one thousand people.  The interpreter was the Rev. Canon Jovahn, the Deputy Principal of BBUC and the man who has been my main contact for the past 5 years.  He is the one who has waited and prayed for us the longest, so it was a joy to stand beside him and speak out the words God had given me to say on that Sunday.

PACKAGES AND SHIPMENT
No pictures for this one, but a lot of gratefulness.  Over the past few weeks we have received packages from family and friends, plus our own shipment of items we sent to ourselves back in August!  The packages from family and friends have included things like prints of paintings for our walls, candied corn, autumnal decorations, wonderful sandals for Leslie (thanks Mary Ellen!), and salty snacks.  Every little bit is like a bright jewel that brings smiles to all our faces.

And what joy it was to receive our shipment at last!  A wonderful friend in Kampala arranged for getting our boxes from the capital to Kabale, and opening them was so much fun.  The girls dove into their dress-up clothes and dolls; Jesse hugged stuffed animals, spilled out his legos, and immediately began re-reading his Tin Tin books; Leslie rummaged through various foods and spices and kitchen accessories; I embraced books and began stacking them beside our bed.  The only challenge was discovering one trunk in which a container of Hershey's chocolate sauce had exploded and drenched toys and other items in chocolate.  I spent 4 hours cleaning the mess, but it was worth it (I only licked my fingers twice).
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We are beginning to settle in to life in Kabale.  We still have days that are up-and-down, tempers flair, tears fall, chaos erupts, water stops, surprises come....  We are not as weary, however, and with increasing frequency we find ourselves enjoying Kabale, and every now and then we feel the rhythm of the life that is coming.

Here are a few more photos to enjoy:

Lucy and Mallory
Cat-burglar Caught!
Julia helping with laundry

Georgia and Lucy with newly arrived shirts from Tia Maria
Julia!
Scene from BirdsNest Balcony on the eve of my birthday

Same scene, further out...

Monday, November 01, 2010

Photographic Tour of Home


Inspired my our teammates' blog (visit Rugarama Hill to get a tour up the hill to where they and we live), I thought I would post a stream of photos that will give you a feel for our home.

Before I begin, a quick update:  
  • Many of you know that Julia was diagnosed last week with shingles.  Yep, shingles!  Now that we have the right medication, she is improving and doing very well.  Thanks for your prayers!
  • Sadly, Lucy is evidencing the same symptoms.  We're watching her, and at least this time we know what to expect.
  • I'm on my third day of undiagnosed illness -- a virus of some sort -- but I'm actually feeling better today.  Those that are praying for us, pray for an end to all this illness.  There has been at least one person ill in our home for the past 3 weeks.  Leslie especially is quite weary, and we're ready for a season of health!
  • I pressed through on Sunday and participated as deacon in my first service at St. Peter's Cathedral. I'm very excited about working under the cathedral staff.  Two of the three have just arrived (all Ugandan), and they have the energy and vision you would expect of new leadership.  There is much to learn from them.
  • Kids have only 2 weeks of school left, and we need to figure out homeschooling for December-January so we can get them caught up for the next school year.
  • Leslie's aesthetic has reawakened, and she has begun to organize the home as best as possible with what we have.  The more homes we visit, the more we realize that the university here worked hard to give us a good, beautiful home.  Here's a glimpse:

This is the path up which we walk from BBUC to our house. The kids know it well and traipse up and down alone on their way to the Morrow's house or to chapel. (They take a different route to school.)

Turning left from the top of the path, you can see our gate hanging just a few meters away.

I love this gate.  It has its own mottled beauty.

These steps lead you up to our house.

Another shot of this view...it's one I love, and I often pause here before going further.

A couple of steps past the gate, and you can see our duplex to the right.

We live on the right side of the duplex, next door to the chaplain of the university.  (He and I actually met each other Trinity almost 9 years ago!) You can see clotheslines and electric cables strung across the yard.  The satellite dish is for our neighbor.

Front view of our home. The window to the right of the door is the master bedroom.

Side view of our home. You can see Sharon doing some washing. Just past the satellite dish are the steps you saw earlier.

Looking down the side of our house, you can see the water tank that provides water for the bathroom.  This area we will be turning into a flower garden.

When you walk out the kitchen door at the back of the house, this is what you see.  Our back yard, of sorts.  I think it's a lovely patio area, but it slopes too much to use it for much.  To the left we're planting another flower garden. Up higher are banana trees and a vegetable garden our helper Protase has planted.  There is another vegetable garden just behind the "boys' quarters," the building immediately to your right.  The small structure higher up is the outhouse, and a garbage pit is to the right of it.

Here's a view of the "boys' quarters."  The first door on the left is Sharon's kitchen.  She does all her amazing cooking on three charcoal stoves like the one below. The door to the right is where our workers take their breaks, and also where Maureen naps her son Jeremiah.
The charcoal stove.  From this perspective it almost looks like a misshapen jack-o-lantern!

Going up the patio area, you can see the first vegetable garden to the right, behind the boys' quarters.

A bit higher up is the second vegetable garden, with Protase typically hard at work.
This is the view standing at the top of the steps behind our house, looking back down at our house.
Coming back down the steps, you can see the doorway into our kitchen.

This photo actually tells so many stories! The blue bucket is our water filtering system...the green bucket is the garbage that gets burnt or shared with neighbors to feed animals...the produce is a daily adventure in the market to find and purchase...the cabinets that were long awaited and made by a man of remarkable quality and character....

The coffee shelf in our kitchen. A very important place. The odd little box is actually an antiquated but highly functional converter bequeathed to us by a departing missionary, along with her coffee grinder.  We will be forever grateful. Yes, the star on the mug is the badge of the legendary Texas Rangers.

Our dining room table.  Note the contrast of technology: our laptop alongside the wooden utensils for making chapatti, the local flatbread.  The art on the walls is the only art we currently have, made by the girls using supplies sent by our missionary care giver of Global Teams.

This is the view from our front porch. In the mornings it's completely shrouded in mist. Almost every day I tell the kids to stop, look, and enjoy the beauty we have here. I love just sitting on our porch.

The tree in our yard is an avocado tree! We've been enjoying its fruits.


To the left of our yard (our compound, as they say here) is a long fence made of bushes and barbed wire, with a vine of morning glories creeping all along it. It protects us from a highly traversed path just on the other side. We hear the voices of passers-by throughout the night going further up the hill.

A close-up of the morning glory.

And just past the morning glories you can see another hill with more beauty -- and a couple of hotels which have provide a nice getaway for us! We order tea and french fries (chips) and sit in the lawns while the kids play.